Stress
Stress is a part of daily life. Pressures occur throughout life and those pressures cause stress. It's how we react to it that makes all the difference in maintaining our health and well-being.
All of us will experience situations that may cause us to become stressed or anxious. These are just too many to be mentioned here but, as a general rule, stress occurs when we are faced with the feeling that we do not have the control of a situation.
Of
course, everyone will have different reasons why a situation causes
them pressure. Some people are more suscetible than others to stress;
for some even ordinary daily decisions seem insurmountable.
On
the other hand, there are those people who seem to thrive under stress
by becoming highly productive.
What
are these signs?
Quiz Time...
Ask
yourself the following questions. Answer yes if you've been feeling
this way consistently over a period of two weeks or more.
1. Do you worry
constantly and cycle with negative self-talk?
2. Do you have difficulty concentrating?
3. Do you
get mad and react easily?
4. Do you have recurring neck or headaches?
5. Do you grind your teeth?
6. Do you frequently feel overwhelmed, anxious or depressed?
7. Do you
feed your stress with unhealthy habits like drinking and eating
excessively, smoking, arguing, or avoiding yourself and life in other
ways?
8. Do small pleasures fail to satisfy you?
9. Do you
experience flashes of anger over a minor problem?
If you can answer YES to most of these
questions, then you do have excessive stress in your life.
Considering the fact that
chronic stress has severe effects on your body and mind, it is by all
means advisable to implement techniques to reduce and control it. How?
Keep reading.
Blocking The Behaviors That Keep Stress Alive
There are three
obsessive behaviors that you are likely to be engaging in that prevent
you from enjoying a stress-free life. Recognizing these barriers can be
a great first step towards getting rid of the problems of
excessive stress.
Obsessive Negativity
- when you are obsessively
negative, it means that you have a tendency towards being negative
about people, places, situations and things in your life. Perhaps you
find yourself saying things like "I can't do this!" or "No one
understands!" or "Nothing ever works!", for example. You may
be doing this unconsciously, but essentially you have what's called a
"sour grapes" attitude, and it holds you back from
viewing life from a positive lens and enjoy the beauty in yourself and
in the people around you. There's a whole world out there for
you...with happiness and positive thinking.
Obsessive Perfectionism
- when you engage in obsessive perfectionism you are centered on trying
to do everything "just so" to the point of driving yourself into an
anxious state of being.You may find yourself making statements such
as "I have to this right or I'll be a failure!" or "If I am
not precise, people will be mad at me!" Again, this behavior may be
totally under the threshold of your awareness, but it interferes
greatly with your ability to enjoy things without feeling "uptight" or
"stressed".
Obsessive Analysis
- when you are obsessed about analysing things, you find
yourself wanting to re-hash a task or an issue over and over again. For
instance, you might find yourself making statements such as "I need to
look this over, study it, and know it inside and out...or else I can't
relax!" or "If I relax and let things go without looking them over
repeatedly, things go wrong!"While analythical thinking is an excellent trait, if it's done in excess you never get to stop and smell the roses because you're too busy trying to analyze everything and everyone around you.
If you find yourself engaging in any of the above blocking behaviors, there are two things you can do to help yourself:
SECOND, keep a journal to write down and establish patterns of when you are using blocking behaviors. Even if you're not thrilled with the idea of writing, you can make little entries into a note book or journal each day. It will help you to see the patterns in your behavior that reveal exactly what you're doing to prevent yourself from curing stress and
anxiety.
" Man
is a mass of
correspondences, and because of these, because he is alive to countless
objects and influences to which lower organisms are dead, he is the
most
living of all creatures. "
Six Tips To Help You Fight Stress
1. Don't just sit there, move! Once again, practice exercise every day.
2. Detach from your daily activities, a short trip to a completely different environment will do wonders.
3. Help others cope with their problems, you'll forget yours.
4. Laugh a little (or a lot...).
5. Do some meditation or prayer.
6. Try some relaxation techniques daily.
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