...Stress...

Stress


Stress is a part of daily life. Pressures occur throughout life and those pressures cause stress. It's how we react to it that makes all the difference in maintaining our health and well-being.


All of us will experience situations that may cause us to become stressed or anxious. These are just too many to be mentioned here but, as a general rule, stress occurs when we are faced with the feeling that we do not have the control of a situation.

Of course, everyone will have different reasons why a situation causes them pressure. Some people are more suscetible than others to stress; for some even ordinary daily decisions seem insurmountable.

On the other hand, there are those people who seem to thrive under stress by becoming highly productive.
What are these signs?

Here's a test to determine if you're suffering from depression:

Quiz Time...


Ask yourself the following questions. Answer yes if you've been feeling this way consistently over a period of two weeks or more.


1. Do you worry constantly and cycle with negative self-talk?

2. Do you have difficulty concentrating? 

3. Do you get mad and react easily?

4. Do you have recurring neck or headaches?

5. Do you grind your teeth?

6. Do you frequently feel overwhelmed, anxious or depressed?

7. Do you feed your stress with unhealthy habits like drinking and eating excessively, smoking, arguing, or avoiding yourself and life in other ways?

8. Do small pleasures fail to satisfy you?

9. Do you experience flashes of anger over a minor problem?

If you can answer YES to most of these questions, then you do have excessive stress in your life.
 

Considering the fact that chronic stress has severe effects on your body and mind, it is by all means advisable to implement techniques to reduce and control it. How? Keep reading.


Blocking The Behaviors That Keep Stress Alive

There are three obsessive behaviors that you are likely to be engaging in that prevent you from enjoying a stress-free life. Recognizing these barriers can be a great first step towards getting rid of the problems of excessive stress.



Obsessive Negativity
when you are obsessively negative, it means that you have a tendency towards being negative about people, places, situations and things in your life. Perhaps you find yourself saying things like "I can't do this!" or "No one understands!" or "Nothing ever works!", for example. You may be doing this unconsciously, but essentially you have what's called a "sour grapes" attitude, and it holds you back from viewing life from a positive lens and enjoy the beauty in yourself and in the people around you. There's a whole world out there for you...with happiness and positive thinking.


 

Obsessive Perfectionism - when you engage in obsessive perfectionism you are centered on trying to do everything "just so" to the point of driving yourself into an anxious state of being.You may find yourself making statements such as "I have to this right or I'll be a failure!" or "If I am not precise, people will be mad at me!" Again, this behavior may be totally under the threshold of your awareness, but it interferes greatly with your ability to enjoy things without feeling "uptight" or "stressed".



Obsessive Analysis - when you are obsessed about analysing things, you find yourself wanting to re-hash a task or an issue over and over again. For instance, you might find yourself making statements such as "I need to look this over, study it, and know it inside and out...or else I can't relax!" or "If I relax and let things go without looking them over repeatedly, things go wrong!"
     
While analythical thinking is an excellent trait, if it's done in excess you never get to stop and smell the roses because you're too busy trying to analyze everything and everyone around you.


If you find yourself engaging in any of the above blocking behaviors, there are two things you can do to help yourself:


FIRSTask the people you know, love and trust, "Am I negative about things?", "Do I complain a lot?", "Am I difficult to be around?". It may be hard for you to listen to the answers, as the truth sometimes hurts a great deal. But the insight you will get from other people's assessment of you is invaluable, because you will know exactly how others see you. Accept their comments as very helpful information to changing your behavior.


SECONDkeep a journal to write down and establish patterns of when you are using blocking behaviors. Even if you're not thrilled with the idea of writing, you can make little entries into a note book or journal each day. It will help you to see the patterns in your behavior that reveal exactly what you're doing to prevent yourself from curing stress and
anxiety.


" Man is a mass of correspondences, and because of these, because he is alive to countless objects and influences to which lower organisms are dead, he is the most living of all creatures. "



Six Tips To Help You Fight Stress


1. Don't just sit there, move! Once again, practice exercise every day.

2. Detach from your daily activities, a short trip to a completely different environment will do wonders.

3. Help others cope with their problems, you'll forget yours.

4. Laugh a little (or a lot...).

5. Do some meditation or prayer.

6. Try some relaxation techniques daily.



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